Controlling Your Tongue..........!!

 

Your tongue is the most dangerous weapon, one must be very cautious what he/she utters.

It doesn’t have any bones yet it can break hearts of many and split relations. The words once spoken cannot be taken back, like an arrow released from the bow.

When we have an accident or when we fall, we may get hurt right? The wounds caused by an accident are temporary, when it’s fresh we may feel the pain but then gradually it fades away but the injury caused to our heart by the words never fades away. The pain keeps popping up every time we think about it. It doesn’t repair easily.

No matter how strong or long your relationship is, a wrong word or a wrong way to express it can take it down. Psychological pain are lasting than the physical pain so we must always speak softly and gently as there is no antidote for the words that injure someone’s heart.

If tongue is said to be a destructive tool it can also mend you.

When we encourage someone it changes their life. Many with their motivational speeches and wise words have uplifted the lives of several people around the globe. Tongue also has the power to heal the wounded.

Tongue can destroy or delight, build or belittle, hurt or heal, uplift or tear down.

Benefits of Controlling your tongue.

• Wise and loving words bring light and hope.

• Things that can't be done or achieved with anger or harsh words can be attained with love and by being kind.

• A plant can't grow in shade it needs sunlight. In the same way being gracious and kind words can heal while harsh words can pierce.

• Kind words have the potential to heal.

• Kind words leave a positive impact on us.

• It helps in building healthy relationship.

• Harsh attitude can stir up anger while a gentle way to deal with the things acts as an antidote.

I hope this has given you some insights.

Your tongue exposes what kind of people you are. It doesn’t matter who you are, everyone’s alike. One must have control over his/her tongue. Speak kind, gracious and loving words.