How To Uproot Your Fears.......................?

               

                                   

                  Fear is something that holds us back from doing things that we actually want to do.

                  In other terms you can say you are phobic. Some may feel phobic to darkness, height, water, animals, failure, imperfection, public speaking, and some to even small creatures like cockroaches, lizards etc.

                  Fear is nothing but a barricade that prevents us to go beyond our fears and surpass it. There is a constant hesitation that resist us and forces us to think repeatedly, 1.Should I really do it? 2. Will I be able to? 3. Will I be successful? 4. What if something goes wrong…………? A sense of doubt begins to grow building all sorts of Pre-assumptions which leads to nowhere. Our mind keeps crawling within that limited space unable to cross the border line between the fear and the new fearless world stuck in the middle hoping to overcome it one day like a numbskull.

                  Remember never be counted among those cold ones who never tried and failed instead try and fail because at least you will not feel guilty of not trying.

                  Your fear may not be fruitful to you but for some others it’s an advantage. There are countless people on this planet wandering like a predator to trap or pull you down by showing that you are not capable of doing a particular thing by deliberately putting you in a situation they know you couldn’t accomplish.

Few techniques to overcome your fears………..

• ·      Embrace your fears.
• ·      Do not turn your back to your fears.
• ·      Facing your fears will lessen it and increase your confidence.
• ·      Inflate your courage and deflate your fears.
• ·      Make a list of all the things you are good at and which boost your confidence.
• ·      Prepare yourself and then practice, if you are not so good at public speaking who other than mirror can be the best companion for that.
• ·      Good company matters. Surround yourself with people who motivates you.
• ·      Subtract yourself from the negative ones
• ·      Seek assistance wherever require to tackle your fears.
• ·      Follow people who educate and guide you.
• ·      Visualize yourself as fearless to know exactly how it feels to overcome your fears.
• ·      You can flatten the graph of your fears by confronting it, as a result there will be a spike in your confidence and a change in your perception.

If you follow the precise techniques your fears will no longer dominate you or obstruct your path to free, fearless, happy and successful life.

RARE TO FIND

                    In the present scenario internet helps us to keep up with our friends, relatives etc. near and far likewise making new friends but in that case we need to be very cautious as there are pros and cons both of it especially when you are making friends online. Social networking sites like Facebook, WhatsApp, Instagram, etc. are few of them which keep us connected despite the distance.

                    Friends play a very important part in our lives. Company of true and good friends are like the comforting rays of the sun during the chilly winter days.

                    It’s about the old orkut days, one such friendship was born through it. One evening, i was gazing the sky and the beautiful dusk scrolling down my orkut page and abruptly a new friend request from someone took my attention, scrutinizing the profile is the very first thing i always do and after a jiffy i finally accepted his request. Conversation began with the normal introduction like 1.What’s your name? 2. What you do? 3. Where do you live? 4. What are your hobbies? Etc. but for few days i monitored him so as he might have done as well. A few conversations helps us understand and likewise by the way someone interacts and of course our vibes sometimes gives us constant reminders like an alarm telling you all the time no there's something fishy step back. HAHAHAHAH.....because we never know who has hidden motives or who turn out to be fake. As i remember he never asked me to share my photographs, number or anything that leads me to suspect him. Later i realized he doesn't belong to that category of people, in fact he is just like our normal friends soon after that realization there was no full stop to it. We laughed, cracked jokes, got annoyed, pull each other’s legs and what not. After quite a long time we thought of exchanging our numbers so that we can hear each other. It still retain in my memory when my phone rang and I heard him for the first time so as he. There wasn’t a pinch of hesitation between us, we talked as if we knew each other since ages. The two of us could talk with each other for hours without being bored and as i was too loquacious he used to call me 100 words per second. HAHAHA….

                  Never knew the people who were once a stranger will have a very exceptional bond between the two called Friendship.Very quickly like wildfire our friendship became the hot topic among his friends there.

                 Out of the blue one morning he told me there’s a gift for you. My heart began to pound to know exactly what it could be. Then he added he has been working on that gift for some time. After a long pause he spilled the beans that he has written a poem for me. He mailed it to my email id. After reading it I was just blown away, overwhelmed by his kind gesture couldn’t really express myself nor did I find any suitable word to express my gratitude the way I felt that time. Times that I spent with him were the real merry days. 

And Our Friendship still continues…………………………



Such friendships are rare and genuine. True Friendship never dies.

HOPE HEAVEN HAD A PHONE...............

         

           

                 There were days, I wish I could hug you and divulge it to you, how life has been so harsh to me at times. I have penned every single detail in my heart. Our chats and the heated arguments still retain in my memory. There’s plenty on my list that I want to tell you like the first dish I made, the days when I made you proud, the very first time when I washed utensils and how washing clothes began like a stand-up comedy and end up drenching me from top to bottom with surf form all over me.

                Every memory has been stored in the photo album within me. Hope heaven had a phone to spill the beans of how your princess has matured with responsibilities proudly and is wearing them on my head like a crown. An emotionally intense conversation may be very distressing though and make me want to settle the old scores and ask u “Dad….. Why did you left us so soon?”

               Hope heaven had a phone, whenever things gets wrong and I feel dejected it’s your voice dad that lifts my spirits. Your loving memories and care seemed to wipe away all my worries and sorrows. With you in my heart I shine like the seven colors of rainbow. Everyone around appeared perplexed when I wanted to begin something new, then I would close my eyes and remember you, I felt as if you said “Do whatever your heart tells you, I will be there with you, no matter what”.

              

               I always thank God for giving you, as you have always embroidered me with brighter colored threads. Plenty of things to share, but never thought you would leave us so soon.

I WISH HEAVEN HAD A PHONE……………

Conclusion: Do not wait for the perfect timing, always make your loved ones feel special and tell them that you love them and do your utmost to keep them happy.